Sunday, November 16, 2025

Goodbye, Pilot...Hello, Taos!

The time has come to bid farewell to my beloved 2008 Honda Pilot. It has been the most incredible car and I've spent the last few weeks mourning its demise. Those of you who know me know all too well that I get very emotionally attached to people and things and this car, which I've driven for almost 18 years, is no exception. I have loved this car since November 2007 and it's filled with countless precious memories. Every single one our dogs has traveled in that car - hours and hours and hours of adventures in every kind of weather - and with the exception of Chelsea, who was ours before the Pilot, we brought all of our dogs home for the first time in it. Even when we adopted Avalanche, when the car was 15 years old, we took the Pilot to bring him home, despite C's car being much newer and nicer! My mom and I also spent many hours together in that car, both happy, like our road trips to Canada, and not-so-happy, like the many doctor appointments and hospital stays. My Pilot is the last car she ever rode in, when she was discharged from the hospital just eight days before we lost her. What this car has meant in my life cannot be overstated...I've driven it for more than one-third of my life!

We never had to do any major repairs on the Pilot in all of those years - just routine things. As it aged and as I racked up the miles, things started to deteriorate, like the radio, the keyless entry, the power locks, etc., but nothing beyond minor inconveniences and I never felt the need to put money into repairing stuff like that. Last year, the air conditioning stopped working, and that was the first time we really contemplated replacing it, but since C works from home, I simply drove his car to work on the days when it was unbearably hot (which, in Virginia, is way more often than I care for). The important thing was that it was still driving very well and by the time this school year began, we'd decided that we'd drive it for as long as we could, but had a plan to replace it in the spring. It was truly an amazing car!

On Friday, October 24, I was driving to work and the transmission failed.  It wouldn't shift gears and I couldn't get the car to go. Of course this happened on a fairly busy road on an upward hill, annoying all of the cars behind me and causing an emotional breakdown on my part! I immediately called C, and he suggested I turn the car off and back on so as it maybe get to a safe place to park the car, which worked, and he and Avalanche came to rescue to me. We ended up getting the car home - C drove it while Avalanche and I followed in his car - although it was a bit of an ordeal that required many restarts and a low speed. It's been at our house ever since, while I contemplate where to donate it, as it just doesn't make financial sense to pay to replace the transmission at this point. 

I've cried about the end of my time with my Pilot. It had a personalized plate and many decals on it and I've been recognized by strangers just because they'd seen my car parked at school. I love that car and will miss it so much!

In the meantime, we've been researching cars. Unfortunately, the car we really wanted won't be out until the spring at the earliest and we simply couldn't wait that long. We're very fortunate because C working from home has allowed us to function with only one car for the last few weeks, but with it getting dark earlier and earlier now, there have been days when I've gotten home too late to take Avalanche to the park, and since we don't have sidewalks anywhere near our house, going to a park every day is how he gets his exercise!

We made many visit to car dealerships, and while I am fully aware what a privilege it is to purchase a car, I really do not like car dealerships or car salespeople. It became a chore in the evenings to go and look at cars. There were a few models we really liked, but honestly, the cost of cars is insane to me!

We ended up choosing a 2025 Volkswagen Taos, and were lucky to get a great price because of end-of-year discounts. I'm very happy with it even though it will never by my Pilot and I'm excited to get another personalized plate in the coming weeks! I won't lie, it feels super weird when I drive it, but I'm sure I'll grow accustomed to it in due time. It's smaller than Pilot and noticeably smaller than C's Subaru Ascent, so Avalanche doesn't quite know what to make of it yet, but he was happy to jump into it to go for a ride!

our first ride together in my new car!

my Pilot passed 258,000 miles on October 13

I never thought I could love a car this much!

The many decals on my Pilot:


















My new Taos:


we've had this blanket for over 25 years and
it lived in the backseat of my Pilot since the
day I bought the car for all of our pups and
now it's in the backseat of my Taos!

making himself at home

we have a long-standing tradition
about being very particular about
the first song played in any new car
we buy and this is what I chose...
my favorite U2 song!


Happy Tails to you!

Saturday, November 15, 2025

Life Lately October 2025

Obviously I am WAY behind on getting this post written, but November has already been a busy month and finding time to go through pictures and sit down to recap the month has been repeatedly pushed to the bottom of my to do list!

We took a little road trip to NJ and NY at the beginning of October...NJ to visit my 95-year old YaYa and NY to celebrate our nephew's first birthday. Any day when I can hug both of my brothers, both of my sisters, my niece, and my nephews is pretty much a perfect day in my opinion, so getting to also hug my dad and my Yaya? Life really doesn't get much better than that. We had originally planned to make it just a day trip, but ended up staying over night in a hotel so we could take Avalanche to Atlantic City on our drive home. He is always extremely well-behaved in hotels and as usual, he charmed the staff when we were checking in!

I love these two so much

very interested in the hotel front desk



why he thought this would be a good
place to sleep, I'll never know

we put his dog bed in between the two beds and
he didn't make a peep all night...he is SUCH a good dog!

we went to this diner right near the hotel the next morning

we shared this one blueberry pancake, which was
absolutely enormous (coffee mug for scale)

I love the rest stops on the Garden State Parkway

her books were my entire childhood


he actually walked in the ocean water!

it was a beautiful day!




We went to Annapolis to see my favorite singer, Steven Page, perform and as always, it was a fantastic show! His voice is my absolute favorite of any vocalist on the planet and I pretty much jump and any opportunity to see him in concert!



our seats were not a good as any of the other
shows we've gone to, but I only care about hearing him sing!

Schools were closed on October 22 in observance of Diwali, so I took advantage of the day off by making a vet appointment for Avalanche for his yearly check up. You may recall that last year, it was a huge ordeal and he had to be sedated, but everything went very smoothly this year and we were in and out in about 35 minutes! All of his bloodwork looks great, he got all of his vaccines, and when they weighed him, he was down to just under 67 pounds (last time he weighed 73 pounds) and Dr. T. said he looked amazing!

very suspicious when we parked at the vet office

always trying to make a break for it


we found a new-to-us park and went for a
long walk after the vet



happy boy!

We ended the month with a very quick road trip to Canada - we left just before midnight on Friday night, arrived at C's parents house just before 10:00 on Saturday morning, and we were on way home before 8:00 am on Sunday morning.



as we got close to C's parents' house,
he recognized the neighborhood




making puppy eyes at his grandpa

look at that face


family is everything

we had a fantastic weather for our drive home


As always, I've got a collection of Avalanche pics from the month:

this handsome devil turned 14 on October 7!







there's a dog park not far from our house
but we only let him go in when it's empty...
all he wants to do is a perimeter sweep LOL











A few random memories from October:

besties

a Lego Luxo, Jr. and Pixar Ball

a sweet treat from the Reading Team at my school

we did our second puzzle night and
this time it took us 90 minutes to finish it,
but we still managed to get second place!

new Disney art in our kitchen

one of my favorite memories from October...
I attended some PD at my former school
and a fifth grader, who was only a second grader
when I last worked there, ran up to me, gave me a hug,
pointed to my lanyard (yes, it's still he same one!)
and said, "I remember you and I remember this!
I don't remember your name, but I remember how nice you are!"
and that sweet interaction made my entire month!

While I know Game 7 of the World Series technically took place on November 1, I'm including it in this post because our entire month of October revolved around the MLB payoffs. As I've shared many times, I cheer for two teams: my Canadian team, the Blue Jays, and my American team, the Dodgers, so for them to meet in the World Series meant I would end up both elated and devastated. If was a great series, even though I was, and continue to be, completely heartbroken for the Blue Jays! We were in university just outside of Toronto when they won back-to-back championships in 1992 & 1993 and it was such an exciting run to experience! Obviously I'm extremely happy for my Dodgers, but I was really pulling for the underdogs this year!

there are the only two MLB player shirts I own
and each of them was named the MVP of their
respective championship series before facing
each other in the World Series!

they are my two favorite baseball players!

I just adore them!

we will always love the Blue Jays!

Happy Tails to you!