Sunday, February 28, 2021

Life Lately February 2021

February has been an unusual month! While January seemed like it would never end, February has passed in the blink of an eye! At school, we had four snow days, three two-hour delays, and the Presidents' Day holiday, and I personally had two sick days to recover from the second dose of the vaccine…no wonder the month felt choppy. I'm hoping March resembles a more normal month!



We celebrated Lunar New Year on February 12 with Chinese food for dinner and a pineapple fish prosperity cake for dessert. With my family being half Chinese, this is an important day to me, made even more awesome by the fact that it's the Year of the Ox, which is the Zodiac sign for my mom, S1, and me!




perfect mugs for Lunar New Year!


My beloved grandma turned 93 over Valentine's Day weekend, and getting to FaceTime with her courtesy of my aunt was the highlight of the whole month for me. I love, love, love, love, love her SO much and seeing her face and hearing her voice made me incredibly happy! I'm really hoping that the border to Canada opens up sometime this year so that my mom and I can go visit her in person. Until then, I'm very thankful for technology!








my forever valentines


As for the rest of the month, there's really not much to report! I've already shared that we had no propane for a couple of days, and yes, I do continue to be obsessed with the birds and squirrels that visit our deck!




Ginny had some bloodwork done to monitor her response to the medication she started, and she seems to be doing quite well. Fingers crossed this continues!



































The countdown to spring break begins with the onset of March tomorrow; there are only 20 school days to go! Students from all grade levels are now officially back in the building, but of those, most come in person only two days a week, and there are others who have opted to remain virtual for the entire school year. Due to the social distancing requirements and the fact that I have a small office, almost all of my reading groups will continue to take place over zoom for the foreseeable future. One of the best things about this is that I will continue to see many of my students' pets! This was my favorite zoom screen from the entire month of February:




Happy Tails to you!

Saturday, February 27, 2021

Vaccinated!

More than eleven months after school closed due to the pandemic, I am beyond relieved to report that I am fully vaccinated. While Mondays have remained a virtual day during the current school year, I've been in the building, around adults and kids, since September. I've been in a constant state of worry; vigilant about mask wearing and hand washing, but hyper aware of the sheer number of people I've been around while not knowing if they were committed to taking similar precautions.

It's not lost on me that I'm very fortunate because teachers have been given priority during the rollout of the vaccine. No one in my family has received the vaccine, and as of today, they don't have any reasonable idea of when they will get it. The fact that I'm now vaccinated is great, but until everyone is, day-to-day life is not really going to be any different. Although I'm certainly hoping I'll be able to worry just a little bit less when I'm at school every day!

I had almost no reaction to the first dose, which I received on January 30. The day following the vaccine, my arm was a little sore, but that was it. When I received the second dose a couple of days ago, it was a very different story:

Wednesday 4:45 pm
I received the second dose of Moderna vaccine. I felt fine the entire evening.

Thursday 6:00 am
I woke up to a sore arm, a bad headache, and a fever of 101.3°F. I felt lousy and the headache made for very restless sleep throughout the day.

Friday 6:00 am
My arm wasn't as sore and the headache was better, but I still had a fever of 100.5°F.

Friday 11:00 am 
Overall, I felt much better and my temperature was down to 99.5°F.

Friday 3:00 pm
The headache was completely gone and my temperature was perfectly normal!

The nurse who administered the vaccine told me any side effects would last approximately 48 hours and she was pretty much spot on! I didn’t take any Tylenol; she told me Tylenol was allowed, but that if I could manage without it, to do so. I absolutely refuse to complain about the side effects because as far as I’m concerned, they are such a minuscule price to pay for the privilege of being vaccinated.

I'm happy to be on the other side of it all and extremely grateful to be fully vaccinated. I'm also very anxious for my family and friends to receive their vaccines!


While Ginny is not known
for being particularly cuddly,
she was very attentive
while I dealt with the side effects!



Happy Tails to you!

Sunday, February 21, 2021

No Propane

We had two snow days at the end of last week due to icy conditions, sleet, and freezing rain, so I spent Thursday hanging out with Ginny while C worked. She and I always wrap up in blankets, regardless of the season, so I didn't notice anything unusual, but when C came upstairs around 4 pm, he asked, "Why is it so cold in here?" Once I got out from under the blanket, I could immediately tell that it was much colder in our family room than it typically is.

C checked the gas fireplace, and the pilot light was out. He then checked the fireplace in our bedroom and the main pilot light in the basement and both of those were out, too. Finally, he went outside to check the tank, and lo and behold, it was empty.

What did this mean? No heat in the basement or on the main floor, and no hot water. Not a great discovery when it's quite cold and windy outside.

Thankfully, the heating system for the second floor runs on electricity, so we knew we'd have heat in our bedroom. For that, we were exceptionally grateful!

C called the propane company to report the empty tank and we were told that they weren't doing any deliveries that day due to the dangerous road conditions. Totally understandable. We were assured that we would have first priority on Friday morning because our tank was empty. They also said we had to be home because the driver would have to come in to light the pilot light in the basement.

We piled on the blankets and were fine on Thursday night. By Friday morning, our house was very cold with the exception of our bedroom (C had closed the vents in the other bedrooms to maximize the heat coming into our room). We waited all morning, and no delivery occurred. I called at noon to check, and we were once again assured that the delivery would happen that day. I stayed in our bedroom all day with Ginny, but C had to work, so he was in the freezing basement with a space heater. We tried to be patient because at least had some heat and we had power.

By 9 pm, we still had no propane, so C called, got the after-hours answering service, and was promised that our concerns would be passed along and we could expect a call back shortly. That never happened. We went to bed under the mound of blankets again and awoke on Saturday morning to an even colder house. I could barely tolerate the kitchen despite the sweatpants, hoodie, and thick socks I was wearing, and I pride myself on being from Canada and not being bothered by the cold!

We made phone call number four, spoke to someone in the office, and were told the delivery had been assigned to a driver the previous night and they couldn't explain why the delivery hadn't been made. This was followed by a promise that they would look into it because there wasn't anything they could do to re-assign the delivery. My patience was wearing thin at this point, but we took them at their word.

The morning came and went and when we called for the FIFTH time at 12:30, the office was closed and we once again spoke with someone from the after-hours answering service. They, of course, had no power to do anything except take our information.

Finally, around 2 pm, a truck showed up. C went outside to speak with the driver, and he had NO IDEA that our tank was empty and apparently thought he was just making a routine delivery. He also did not come in to light the pilot light because he had no directions to do so; we ended up doing it ourselves while hoping we didn't blow up the house. (Admittedly, that was just me being concerned about that!)

Overall, it was a very aggravating experience. Not because we didn't have propane – we could have gone to a hotel if we'd needed to – but rather because of the incredibly poor communication and customer service. Why did we have to call five times, speak to two different offices and a total of five different people, only to learn that none of our information even made it to the appropriate person? We felt like we got the runaround during every single phone call! And being told we had to be home so someone could come inside when the propane was delivered was clearly nonsense.

Thankfully, we had no burst pipes or anything of the sort. The house took about eight hours to warm up to normal temperatures and the hot water is functioning properly now. Everything is fine. We are fine. But I would have appreciated the propane company just being upfront and telling us they couldn't get to us until Saturday instead of repeatedly assuring us a delivery was on its way. It's not the driver's fault that he wasn't told this was an emergency situation because our tank was empty, so we certainly don't blame him for not knowing! The breakdown in communication is what is unacceptable, because while we are fortunate to have a secondary heating system in the house, others might rely solely on propane heating and this kind of incompetence from the company could have really had a negative impact in such cases.

Very grateful things are back to normal!

how Ginny spends a snow day

suspicious about why so many
blankets are on the bed

then decided she was
quite happy about all the blankets

she had no complaints

sleeping on C's shoulder

I put her dog bed on my legs
and she climbed right in

not aware of the extra warmth
she was providing

finally



Happy Tails to you!

Wednesday, February 3, 2021

Ginny & Max Again

My two brothers and I share the responsibility of our mom's care; when one of us is out of town, one of the others steps in. Even when my mom was living with us, if C and I traveled, one of my brothers (and of course, my sisters-in-law) would take over. It gives us all some peace of mind to know someone is available to help her anytime she needs us.

Let me interrupt myself to clarify who's who. You may have noticed that I don't use people's names in this blog because it's public. In the past, I've used my brothers' initials, but I've decided that I will refer to them as B1 and B2 (and by extension, S1 and S2) from now on. Why this idea didn't occur to me before now, I don't know!

Now that my mom's not living with me as we wait for everyone to be vaccinated while I have to be at school around people everyday, B1 and S1 have assumed the main caretaker roles. My mom only a five-minute walk away from them and that is working out pretty well. The nice thing is that my mom doesn't have to navigate any stairs, which she does when she is at my house and also at B1's house. S1 checks in on her daily, gets groceries for her, and takes her to appointments. I'm extremely grateful to B1 and S1 because I know my mom is being taken care of.

When we went to Hilton Head, my mom came to our house to watch Ginny for us, and B2 came and stayed with her. Last week, B1 and S1 were out of town, so B2 and S2 came once again to handle her care. It is a team effort over here to make sure my mom isn't alone! While she is able to do many things independently, it's just better for everyone if we all know one of us is keeping an eye on things.

We had some of my mom's mail, so we decided to take Ginny for a ride to drop it off this past weekend. While the mail is certainly important, we had an ulterior motive for going: we wanted Ginny to be able to see Max (B2's dog) because she is in love with him. I'm not exaggerating when I say that...I wrote an entire post about the two of them back in August!

When we got to my mom's, we stayed outside (her apartment is luckily on the ground floor), while my mom and B2 stayed inside and just opened the sliding glass door to chat. Max came out on the balcony and the reunion between Max and Ginny was so precious! He jumped up and kissed her immediately!

Max was so excited to see her!

I cannot handle these pics!


Here are a few other pics of the two of them from when we were away in December; B2 sent them to me while he and Max were keeping my mom company!






Seeing Max - and getting to hang out with him - is one of Ginny's favorite things in the entire world! Watching the two of them together is one of mine!

Happy Tails to you!

Monday, February 1, 2021

Backpack Update

A few weeks ago, I posted that we bought a backpack for Ginny to carry her when we go on longer walks. The first time we put her in it, I had put a blanket in the bottom that took up far too much space and she ended up sitting really awkwardly, which annoyed her. Frankly, I can't blame her!

Last weekend, we went for a long walk in a nearby forest, and given her recent diagnosis, we really didn't want to overdo it, so we put the backpack to the test. I'm happy to report that it is a hit! Not only did I put a much smaller blanket in the bottom for her to sit on, but we realized that there's a zipper to make it easy to get her in and out of it - unlike the first time we tried it when we struggled to slide (i.e., shove) her body in through the top opening. So sorry about that, Ginny!

This time, she settled right in and seemed to enjoy being carried in it. I really do think that the elevated position gives her so much more to look at than her typical, so-low-to-the-ground view!

the first time we put her in it...
not great

on our long walk...
much better!






Happy Tails to you!